A funeral arrangement checklist for small funeral homes

Updated October 22, 2026 · For independent funeral homes

In a small funeral home, a lot of the process lives in the director’s head. That works until two cases overlap, someone is out sick, or a family calls and the person who answers doesn’t know what’s been done. A shared checklist for every case solves most of it.

Below is a starting checklist. Adjust it to your state’s requirements, your own services and the way your staff divide the work.

First call and transfer

  • Take the first call: name of the deceased, place of death, next of kin, contact number.
  • Confirm the death has been pronounced and whether the medical examiner or coroner is involved.
  • Arrange transfer into your care.
  • Schedule the arrangement conference with the family.

Arrangement conference

  • Confirm who has the legal right to make arrangements.
  • Choose burial or cremation, and the type of service.
  • Collect information for the death certificate and obituary.
  • Review the itemized statement of goods and services and get signatures.
  • Agree dates: visitation, service, burial or cremation.

Paperwork and permits

  • File the death certificate and obtain certified copies for the family.
  • Obtain the burial or cremation permit required in your state.
  • Cremation authorization, if applicable.
  • Notify Social Security and help the family with veterans’ benefits if eligible.

Service preparation

  • Confirm clergy or officiant, music and readings.
  • Order flowers, printed programs and memorial items.
  • Coordinate with the cemetery or crematory.
  • Publish the obituary.
  • Arrange vehicles and staff for the day.

After the service

  • Deliver remaining death certificates and paperwork to the family.
  • Return personal effects and photographs.
  • Close out the account.
  • Schedule an aftercare follow-up call.

Make it shared, not personal

The checklist only helps if everyone uses the same one and ticks items off as they’re done. Then anyone answering the phone can see where a case stands, and a director covering for a colleague can pick up where they left off.

Common questions

Should every case use the same checklist?
Use one standard list as the base and adjust it per case. A cremation with a memorial service will skip some burial steps; a veteran’s service will add some.

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