A funeral arrangement checklist for small funeral homes
Updated October 22, 2026 · For independent funeral homes
In a small funeral home, a lot of the process lives in the director’s head. That works until two cases overlap, someone is out sick, or a family calls and the person who answers doesn’t know what’s been done. A shared checklist for every case solves most of it.
Below is a starting checklist. Adjust it to your state’s requirements, your own services and the way your staff divide the work.
First call and transfer
- Take the first call: name of the deceased, place of death, next of kin, contact number.
- Confirm the death has been pronounced and whether the medical examiner or coroner is involved.
- Arrange transfer into your care.
- Schedule the arrangement conference with the family.
Arrangement conference
- Confirm who has the legal right to make arrangements.
- Choose burial or cremation, and the type of service.
- Collect information for the death certificate and obituary.
- Review the itemized statement of goods and services and get signatures.
- Agree dates: visitation, service, burial or cremation.
Paperwork and permits
- File the death certificate and obtain certified copies for the family.
- Obtain the burial or cremation permit required in your state.
- Cremation authorization, if applicable.
- Notify Social Security and help the family with veterans’ benefits if eligible.
Service preparation
- Confirm clergy or officiant, music and readings.
- Order flowers, printed programs and memorial items.
- Coordinate with the cemetery or crematory.
- Publish the obituary.
- Arrange vehicles and staff for the day.
After the service
- Deliver remaining death certificates and paperwork to the family.
- Return personal effects and photographs.
- Close out the account.
- Schedule an aftercare follow-up call.
Make it shared, not personal
The checklist only helps if everyone uses the same one and ticks items off as they’re done. Then anyone answering the phone can see where a case stands, and a director covering for a colleague can pick up where they left off.
Common questions
- Should every case use the same checklist?
- Use one standard list as the base and adjust it per case. A cremation with a memorial service will skip some burial steps; a veteran’s service will add some.